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Behaviour and discipline

behaviour and discipline

Discipline is a necessary part of both home and school life. Different parents will have different ways of ensuring their child behaves well - what works for one child may not work for another.

The ParentsCentre forum is the ideal place to glean ideas, advice and information from other parents and carers who have experienced - or are experiencing - the same issues as you. You'll find a variety of different discussions in the forum, from the benefits of fish oils and positive parenting to ADHD, detention and moodiness.

You can start a new discussion, join in with a current one or simply read other people's posts. You can also submit a question to an expert. Details of the different forum areas are below on the right hand side.

Discipline at school is based on an agreement between the school and parents about what the expected behaviour of children should be. Below you'll find information about how schools deal with issues such as bullying, drugs and alcohol, truancy and disruptive behaviour.

You'll also find information on what your rights and responsibilities are as a parent or carer, with sections covering exclusions, parenting contracts, parenting orders and penalty notices. 

Parents' views

Sometimes speaking to parents and carers who have experienced the same issues and problems as you can be a great way to get valuable advice and information. Read, respond or ask a question in the 'Behaviour and discipline' Opens in this window  section of the ParentsCentre forum. You may also be interested in paying a visit to the 'Parental rights and responsibilities' Opens in this window, 'Worried about...' Opens in this window  and 'Family matters - being a parent or carer' Opens in this window  sections for similar discussions.

Experts' views

Benefit from the advice and tips given by our experts in the 'Ask an expert' section of the ParentsCentre forum.

Behaviour and discipline in school
  • information on school policy, detention, pastoral support programmes, managing disruptive behaviour and use of force to restrain
Problems at school
  • how to deal with issues your child may encounter, plus information on special educational needs (SEN) and appealing to the Secretary of State about exclusions
Bullying
  • information and support to enable you to identify and deal with the issue of bullying
Drugs, alcohol and tobacco
  • information about the role of schools in preventing children from abusing drugs, alcohol and tobacco, plus links to useful websites
Truancy
  • tips for ensuring your child doesn't play truant, plus information about school attendance laws
Exclusions
  • a guide to the different types of exclusion and information on how to appeal 
School attendance: your responsibilities
  • a guide to the laws, the role of LAs, ways in which parents can help and term-time holidays 
Parenting contracts
  • information about the formal agreements made between schools, LAs and parents to ensure good behaviour and attendance
Parenting orders
  • advice about the court order which can be used to make parents undertake parenting classes
Penalty notices
  • information about fines which can be issued to parents for their children's truancy, plus details of how to appeal

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